I can't believe that I am writing this but -
TOMORROW IS OUR FINAL HOME STUDY VISIT!!!!!
WHAT?!?!?! We are so pumped and just truly overwhelmed by how this process is progressing. God has had such a hand in this from the beginning and we are trusting him to see it through. This is a major hurdle that we are about to leap tomorrow. Many friends and family have asked - what happens after the home study? After our last visit - TOMORROW (Did I mention that???) - Our amazing social worker will begin to compile all of her findings about the Chalos family into one document. It can be anywhere from 10-18 pages(even more for some families). She then submits the document to a long list of people to read and adjust as necessary. Once it is completely approved, we will then be submitting it to immigration for approval - along with other paperwork. There are SO many other details involved in this process - like our international paperwork for Congo (also known as a dossier) - visa application - submission of the dossier to Congolese government - etc...
CAUTION - THIS NEXT PART IS VERY TRULY AWESOMELY EXCITING....
Right now we are asking for your prayers because the next step is the most incredible so far - The next step is called "the referral" - that means we are waiting to be matched with our child. We are waiting for the day when they call us and tell us that they have a match - and that they have pictures and we get to lay eyes on our child for the first time - I truly can't imagine what that day will be like. We have waited for so long - OVER FOUR YEARS - for this perfect child that God has in store for us. But God is working on us. He is growing a love for this child inside of us that is indescribable. I already LOVE this child. I do. and seriously - you should hear Chad talk about this child that he doesn't even know - that he loves - more than it seems humanly possible. So as tough as it is some days, we will wait with a smile and a growing love for Baby Chalos. The orphanage that our agency works with does have waiting children - so we may not have to wait long - or we may be waiting for quite some time - adoption is like that. It requires a patient heart - make that TWO patient hearts. We are working on that.
I have truly realized in the past several days - that God isn't just providing the Chalos' with the family that they have only dreamed of - he has placed a desire - a passion - on our hearts for the MANY children in this world that go to sleep hungry - lacking the love, compassion, and gentle touch that they deserve. This desire and passion - I pray that it will never die. I pray that we will never be satisfied with the numbers of growing orphans - who need food, clean water, life skills, a family to love them - to be Jesus to them. God is so amazing. He has such unconditional love that he would adopt us all into his family. Oh that we could have SUCH love and courage!!!
I feel really blessed that God has just allowed multiple people to walk into our lives who are on a similar road. One of these couples just shared this adoption news with the world this week - and I want to share it with you. They love Jesus ALOT - and they are going to be INCREDIBLE parents. So if you get a chance take a tour of their blog - join them in prayer and if you can - help them bring their baby home.
http://lubiensadoption.wordpress.com/
Thank you for your unending love, prayers, and support!!! Don't forget - MARK YOUR CALENDAR FOR NOVEMBER 5th - and come join us at our adoption craft fair.
Lots of love,
The Chalos'
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